Reader's Guide for Discussion

A reader's guide for discussion of Reluctant Miracle for book groups

1. Discuss ways that marital fidelity is broken between Maggie and Gordon; between Rita and John. Is marital infidelity ever justified?

2. Technology plays a central role in this novel. How would Maggie's reaction to Leslie's death have changed if fertility and surrogacy technology were not available?

3. Would you describe Maggie's actions as selfish or selfless? Why? How would Maggie describe her actions?

4. If you were Gordon, how would you have reacted to Maggie's pregnancy? How would you react initially and then subsequently?

5. Rita continued to smell the odor of sewage in her home. Why do you think she continued to smell the odor when John did not?

6. Of the four central characters (Maggie, Gordon, John, and Rita) who do you most admire and why? Who do you like the least and why?

7. Why did Maggie's mother refuse to help her? Can you think of a situation where you would refuse to help your adult child?

8. What role did Maggie and Gordon's behavior play in Abby's illness? Discuss how Abby's emotional and physical well-being was impacted by the various actions of her parents.

9. Do you think these characters will live happily ever after? What are some of the possible outcomes?

10. How has this book changed your view of surrogate pregnancy? Under what circumstances would you consider becoming a surrogate?

11. Do you think Rita and John were justified in their quest for a child of their own given their financial and personal sacrifice.